I have a question for your consideration. It concerns the female G spot! I know what it is I think! But how can a man (or couple) know if the magic spot has been found and this marvellous pleasure centre activated? Thanks in advance for your advice! — Ron
Here are a few ways to know if you are on the ever elusive G-Spot, which does exist. Believe me!
Location Location Location.
The G-Spot is inside the vagina, on the front side, right above the pubic bone about 1-1.5” just inside of her on the same side as her belly and the area feels bumpy like the roof of your mouth.
Using two fingers, try the middle and ring, some like index and middle find what works for you both. Next is the part when you have to really listen to your partners pleasure, either tap or stroke ‘hither’ and you might need to tap hard or soft, and it might change each and every time you go to touch her. Because every time of the month her sensations are completely different. Tune in to your partner.
Sometimes women experience this sensation as uncomfortable or that they have to pee. If she is uncomfortable go softer and try stroking side to side instead. You know it is the oh GEEZ-SPOT when it starts to swell and feel spongy like the part of your palm right under the thumb, then find the stroking/tapping that works for her and you will feel it continue to expand and move even closer to her external area. **
If she has to pee tell her not to worry about it, it is not usually pee but the closest to this strange sensation of fluids building in the skene gland. At this point if she ‘bares down’ she might even squirt.
Release all expectations other than curiosity, exploration and pleasure.
Drop me a line and let me know how this tip worked for you.
**The G-Spot is approximately 1-1.5” in and moves outward as she gets turned on. This is partly why ‘size does not matter’. Just sayin’!