Amy Color, intimacy coach and creator of The Intimacy Game Plan, smiles warmly in a soft-lit profile photo. Her presence exudes wisdom, approachability, and emotional strength—inviting clients into a space of healing, connection, and confidence.

Amy is the intimacy expert—teaching the science of love, the chemistry of desire and the anatomy of pleasure.

Meet Amy Color

The Intimacy Coach for Men, Women & Couples

“Relationships don’t need more work. They need more play—and the practice is the best part!”

I teach the skills that make intimacy last—emotionally, physically, and erotically.

I didn’t set out to become an intimacy coach. I became the help my husband and I needed—but couldn’t find.

We did everything “right”—therapy, specialists, even medical interventions. We loved each other deeply, but we were stuck in a sexless marriage, quietly aching for connection. And nothing worked. Because no one was teaching what intimacy actually is—how it gets lost, and how to build it and what to do.

So I went looking for solutions. And what I found surprised me.

Over two decades, I studied the science, psychology, and spirituality of intimacy. I learned how emotional safety and physical connection shape every part of our lives—and how the right tools can change everything easily, even after years of struggling.

Since then, I’ve helped thousands of men, women, and couples go from roommates to playmates—to become lovers again, without pressure, pills, or therapy marathons.

My clients often face the challenges no one talks about: erectile dysfunction, prostate issues, pain, shame, mismatched libidos, trauma, disconnection. These aren’t just physical or emotional problems. They’re intimacy problems. And they require intimacy-based solutions.

That’s what I teach: simple, practical tools grounded in science and real-life experience. My method combines therapeutic wisdom, nervous system repair, erotic intelligence, and playful touch. The goal isn’t perfection. It’s connection—emotional, physical, and lasting.

Today, I’m recognized as a leading intimacy expert. Through my TED talk, my book The Huddle: How to Score in Sex & Love, and my signature coaching programs, I help people create a love life that feels honest, sensual, and alive.

Intimacy doesn’t have to be complicated.
It’s a skill.
And once you make the connection, everything changes—and love grows.

The New Way

Where performance drops—and real connection begins.

Relationships don’t end from lack of love—but from lack of intimacy.
Real intimacy is the foundation of a relationship you can build your life on. It’s where you feel safe, seen, heard, understood, and loved.

I’m a coach.

For over 25 years, I’ve guided men and couples to develop real intimacy, communication, tantra, and relationship skills.
This modality address the unspoken barriers—erectile dysfunction, shame, trauma, mismatched libidos, emotional shutdowns, silent resentment, performance pressure, and sex that’s become mechanical or nonexistent.

My solutions are real. They’re grounded in science, backed by experience, and designed for people to heal in connection.

✔️ The Intimacy Game Plan™ is a step-by step formula that teaches tools, techniques, and skills to build real emotional & physical connection and chemistry.
✔️ The Huddle™ is a nonverbal practice that creates immediate emotional and physical attunement and connection.
✔️ The Hero Hold offers real, physical ways to break the cycle of avoidance and silence.

This isn’t theory. It’s not therapy. It’s real intimacy—rooted in science, built through practice.

My Training & Approach

Areas of Study:

    • Couples Therapy

    • Sex Therapy

    • Imago Relationship Therapy (Harville Hendrix)

    • Gottman Method Couples Therapy

    • EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing)

    • NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming)

    • Somatic Therapy

    • Trauma-Informed Practice

    • Polyvagal Theory & Vagal Toning

    • Stretch Therapy & Functional Physiotherapy

    • Anxious-Avoidant Attachment Pattern Rewiring

    • Attachment Theory (Bowlby, Ainsworth)

    • Neuroscience of Intimacy and Arousal

    • Nervous System Regulation

    • Endocrinology and Hormonal Cycles (esp. male hormone responsiveness)

    • Biology of Touch, Saliva, and Yawning (Chasmology) as Bonding Mechanisms

    • Sleep, Snoring & Connection

    • Addiction and Dopamine Dysregulation

    • Shame and its Neurological Impact

    • Emotional Safety and Threat Responses in Sexuality

    • Vagal Toning & Breath-Based Regulation

    • Psychosomatic Awareness

    • Body-Based Trauma Release

    • Integrative Stretch and Movement Practices

    • Sensory Reconnection Practices

    • Visual and Nonverbal Communication

    • Somatic Signaling and Receptivity Training

    • Erotic Intelligence (inspired by Esther Perel)

    • Sexual Communication and Repair

    • Psycho-Sexual Education

    • Conscious Conflict Resolution

    • Inner Integrity and Alignment with Purpose

    • Sacred Relating and Erotic Polarity

    • Love as a Practice of Integrity, Play, and Devotion

    • Multi-Religious Understanding of Love, Marriage & Intimacy

    • Sacred Sexuality and Neo-Tantric Practice

    • Spiritual Leadership in Relationship Development

    • Origins of Marriage and Cultural Shifts in Relating

    • Anthropological History: From Barbarianism to Bonding

    • World Cultural Models of Family and Partnership

    • Archetypal and Mythological Influence on Relationship Dynamics

    • Synchronicity, Purpose, and Energetic Alignment

    • Specializing in working with men and couples

    • Deep experience helping men reconnect with purpose, meaning, and emotional aliveness

    • Supporting men with performance anxiety, shame, numbness, disconnection, and relationship confusion

    • Translating men’s emotional needs to their partners, and teaching couples to grow together—not just stay together

    • Creating transformational spaces for couples who love each other but feel like roommates

    • Rebuilding trust, polarity, and playful intimacy through emotional safety and communication mastery

    • Addressing the emotional roots of male suicide through the lens of disconnection and care

I hold certifications in:

  • Imago Relationship Therapy

  • Gottman Method

  • Tantra

  • Sexological Bodywork

  • Neuro-Linguistic Programming

  • Somatic Trauma Healing

  • Polyvagal Theory

  • Erotic Intelligence

  • Couples Coaching

I’m a TEDx speaker, the author of The Huddle: How to Score in Sex & Love, and the creator of signature programs for men and couples ready to reconnect and thrive—especially when traditional therapy hasn’t helped.

My method blends neuroscience, somatic work, emotional communication, and sacred sexuality. It’s direct, playful, and grounded in real-life intimacy skills.

My Mission

It’s human nature to crave love, sex, and deep connection—with the same person.

But no one teaches us how to keep that connection strong over time.

That’s why I do what I do.

My mission is to help people connect as partners and lovers—emotionally, physically, and playfully—so they can stay together, grow together, and raise families rooted in love, not just a wish and a prayer.

Because intimacy isn’t just about sex.
It’s about vulnerability.
It’s about sharing private moments.
And it’s about choosing each other as lovers and partners—for a lifetime.

We all deserve that kind of love.
And this is a solution the world needs. I'm here to share it.

Intimacy is a skill. Connection is the cure. Pleasure is the practice. Love is the outcome.

Explore More with Amy

Watch my TEDx Talk or dive into one of my YouTube videos.
Check out the blog, grab a free intimacy download, or reach out directly.
I’d love to hear from you. Send a message or schedule a consultation—and let’s talk.

“We loved our time with you, and still practice our moves daily - it’s made all the difference! You are truly a gem.”

— A and C