His Story: “It’s Not About Sex—It’s About Connection”
He thought love meant sex.
He thought intimacy was penetration. - a 3 step routine 🙄
And then... everything changed.
Steve had with a belief so many people (especially men) carry:
That the way to show love in a relationship is through sex.
That physical intimacy = connection.
That if you’re not having sex, something must be wrong.
But what Steve discovered is something deeper—and far more powerful.
“I thought that a man showed a woman how he loved her by f*ing her.
But that really has turned out to not be it.”
In the first few weeks of learning and implementing the Intimacy Game Plan, Steve and his partner paused sex (and heavy conversations) completely—on purpose.
And yet, they felt closer than ever.
They began building closeness, learning to connect and communicate differently, and most importantly—slowing down to actually feel each other again.
The intimacy returned. Not because they performed better, but because they connected more deeply.
“We haven’t had sex since we started this…
But it’s not something I’m missing. We’re creating a connection.
If you can build that, sex becomes a byproduct of it.”
And that’s the key.
The Intimacy Game Plan isn’t about withholding sex—it’s about building the kind of connection that makes it safe, satisfying, and soulful again.
Takeaway:
If your relationship feels like it’s missing something…
If sex has become confusing, distant, or disconnected…
It might not be a performance issue. (Or even if it is…)
It’s a connection issue.
And that’s exactly what we work on—step by step, without shame or pressure.
🧩 Ready to reconnect?
Download the free Game Plan and start creating the intimacy you've been missing.