Can You Have Great Sex with Erectile Dysfunction or Premature Ejaculation?
Q: Dear #AskAmyColor
I’m worried to get close or intimate and not be able to please her.
A: Absolutely! If you struggle with erectile dysfunction (ED) or premature ejaculation (PE), you are not broken—and you are not alone. Most men don’t realize that amazing intimacy has nothing to do with lasting forever or having a perfect erection. It’s about pleasure, confidence, and real connection.
I know this because I’ve been there. I saw firsthand how traditional doctors only offered pills, pumps, and surgeries—but none of these provide skills, confidence, or the ability to be a great lover. That’s why I created The Intimacy Game Plan, a step-by-step system that transforms men from stressed and anxious to confident and satisfied.
What Every Man Needs to Know:
• You don’t need an erection to be a great lover. Just ask lesbians.
• Sex is a full-body experience. Penetration is just one small part.
• Men can be multi-orgasmic—yes, even with ED or PE!
• Your partner isn’t just looking for performance—she wants connection.
How to Overcome ED & PE (Without Pills or Pressure)
1 Slow Down & Remove the Pressure
Keep your underwear on during foreplay—it helps retrain your mind and body to enjoy pleasure without rushing.
Stop “outsourcing sex to your brain” (like with porn)—focus on the sensations in your body.
2 Make the "Huddle Sounds"
Athletes huddle before a big play—why? It builds mind-body connection.
When you make small pleasure sounds ("mmm," "ahh"), it helps you stay present and engaged.
3 Explore Non-Penetrative Pleasure
A flaccid penis can still orgasm—yes, really!
Prostate and G-spot orgasms don’t require an erection.
4 Train Together, Not Alone
Your intimate relationship is a team sport. Great players practice together—they don’t just hope things magically improve.
In The Intimacy Game Plan, I teach you simple, real-world intimacy skills to bring back passion, confidence, and pleasure.
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