Intimacy Unlocked With Amy Color
Struggling with intimacy? Whether it’s stress, pain, trauma, disconnection, age, medical issues, hormonal changes, sexual pain, co-occurring disorders, or even physical therapy for sexual pain—you’re not alone.
Discover real solutions from Amy Color, Your Intimacy Coach, to unlock confidence, passion, and connection in your relationship.
Why Do You Need an Intimacy Game Plan?
If your wife has low libido and you're feeling rejected, frustrated, or stuck, you’re not alone. Many men in long-term relationships face this issue, but the good news is—desire can be rekindled.
3 Proven Moves to Get Her in the Mood
If your wife never seems in the mood and you’re feeling rejected, frustrated, or lost, you’re not alone. But here’s the truth: She does want intimacy—just not the way you’ve been initiating it.
Many men think sex and desire should happen spontaneously—that you should magically have the same hunger at the same time. But desire doesn’t work that way. Instead of waiting for the mood to strike, you can actively create the connection that leads to intimacy.
How Can I Increase My Wife’s Desire and Bring Back Intimacy?
If your wife has low libido and you're feeling rejected, frustrated, or stuck, you’re not alone. Many men in long-term relationships face this issue, but the good news is—desire can be rekindled.
Can You Have Great Sex with Erectile Dysfunction or Premature Ejaculation?
If you deal with erectile dysfunction (ED) or premature ejaculation (PE), you are not broken—and you are not alone. Most men don’t realize that amazing intimacy has nothing to do with lasting forever or having a perfect erection. It’s about pleasure, confidence, and real connection.
How Can I Last Longer in Bed and Overcome Premature Ejaculation?
If you deal with premature ejaculation, you're not alone! Performance anxiety, lack of skills, and focusing too much on the finish line all play a role. But here’s the secret: lasting longer is a skill—and it can be trained.
How Can Couples Initiate Intimacy in a Way That Works for Both Partners?
If you’re tired of feeling rejected or wondering why your partner never initiates, you’re not alone. Many couples struggle with initiating intimacy in a way that feels good for both partners. The good news? There’s a simple, wordless system that removes the pressure and makes connection effortless.
Feeling Touch-Starved? How to Connect with Yourself
Q: Dear #AskAmyColor, I’m feeling disconnected from my husband and it’s causing me anxiety. When I try to talk about my feelings he gets mad and says he doesn’t want to hear it, I'm ‘stressing him out’. I don’t know what to do. It’s affecting our relationship. He won’t talk to a therapist. I feel stuck, what do I do? ~Grace
My anxiety is affecting my relationship.
Q: Dear #AskAmyColor, I’m feeling disconnected from my husband and it’s causing me anxiety. When I try to talk about my feelings he gets mad and says he doesn’t want to hear it, I'm ‘stressing him out’. I don’t know what to do. It’s affecting our relationship. He won’t talk to a therapist. I feel stuck, what do I do? ~Grace
I'm Not In The Mood! What Should I Do?
Q: Hi Amy, As you know, I have a hard time relaxing and feeling sexy for Dustin in the best of times. Now being in lockdown I’m feeling extra anxious and worried about everything. He's constantly making advances. Even when I give in, he wants more. He's bugging me. I'm not in the mood! What should I do? ~ Emily
3 Things Raul Learned To Be A Great Lover
He realized that having some skills affected all parts of his life, he’d since got a promotion, a girlfriend and yes, he truly was a more confident man.
My wife won't give me enough sex and I want a threesome.
Q: My wife won't give me enough sex. I masturbate and watch too much porn. She's not sexually active like before we got married.
Why Do You Feel Lonely After Sex? What Can You Do About It?
If we go into an encounter without taking the time to feel present and connect we might miss the entire point of the encounter.
A Sweet Way To Initiate ~ The Candy Dish For Anticipation
Q: I’m the one always initiating sex. In all the years that we have been together she never reaches for me. When we do have sex she never tells me what she wants. We argue more and I find myself less attracted to her. I don’t feel desirable and I worry about our future. Can you help us?
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It's my mission for men, and couples, to have fully expressed sensual playful, connected, confident, satisfying, healing, intimate physical connection. No matter what was going on in their lives or with his Big Ole Boy 'BOB'.
Avoiding Sex Because Of Unpre-Dick-tability?
It makes sense. You feel like if you can't finish the game, why even start? I get it!
Are you ready for better intimacy and sex? Here are 3 ways to 'set the mood'.
Getting in the mood -together- is about calming the mind and synchronizing your rhythms. Here are three simple steps to follow.
How do I know if I am on the G-Spot?
The G-Spot is inside the vagina, on the front side, right above the pubic bone about 1-1.5” just inside of her on the same side as her belly and the area feels bumpy like the roof of your mouth.
Can you help me with my oral skills? I would love to be able to satisfy a woman orally.
The key to good anything is skill, but in intimacy it is mostly presence. Presence allows you the ability to read your partner’s cues and respond in a way that promotes more pleasure, which is the ultimate goal.
What can I do to feel secure in a relationship?
You can learn what it is to have a secure relationship with yourself. You've heard someone described as 'secure with themselves, this means they like themselves and have healthy boundaries.
My marriage is falling apart and I don't know what to do or how to cope.
I’m glad you reached out to me and I am sure there are others in your circle of family and friends that can support you through this.
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